hi Alina,
it is true that for an event to be successful it needs certain conditions,
on the other hand i think being proactive is important to make things happen as sometimes we can't control the time or the circumstances ,and if we keep waiting we could be missing an opportunity
what do you think??

 

Hi =)

Sometimes the best thing you can do is to do nothing. Sometimes saying less is better than saying more. And sometimes, the best circumstances seem pretty difficult. Yet I would almost say that if something is meant to happen, it will.

I'm just guessing,

"Learn to forgive and forget
Love's empty words and regrets
Cause some things are better left unsaid"

 

Yaser, I was not suggesting we should do nothing. I was only emphasizing why sometimes, against our best intentions and against all our actions, an event, situation, encounter might still not happen.

Fyurien, I never agreed one should wait for their life to happen to them. Yes, "What is for you will never go by you", but this is more of a thought to make you accept loss and possible failure, not a thought to lead your life by.

Besides, when one happens to stumble on real love, there is no room left for empty words or regrets.

 

=)

Real love is a funny thing. Sometimes it stares you right in the face, smiles and then turns around and walks away. Will you follow? What will you do if the circumstances dont rise to your needs? And what if you trip and fall while chasing after it, will you get up and keep going?

Well I think that might be going away from the post. Nice post btw. =)

 

Real love is one of the rarest treasures one can find in a lifetime. The perfect partner! When that happens, individual needs change, stumbling and falling never stop one from rising and going further.

turns around and walks away? As in leaving you? Well, then that's not what I am talking about. Real love is about two people sharing it. One might go away for a while, but never turn around and walk away.

 

You are correct, right up untill you said "Real love is..." Everthing after that was pure rubbish. Its as if you've never been in love. Though I suppose its really not my place to say.

Real love is (more percicely) the hardest treasure to find in a life time. You have to spend a great deal of time searching for it. Once you find it, a good lot of work must go into digging it up. And then you must be certain to care for it everyday, since treasure has a way breaking easily.

But what with all these silly anologies, I'm sure you'd rather hear more substantial talk. Consider the idea that sometimes love spans great distances, when people live in the same house. Whereby the same token, love can be geniunly close, despite vast oceans. Such circumstances really dont dictate how close love is. And if it is to walk away, its because you've let it go. True love is between two people, but they too are individuals and despite the oft confused idea about love, its not eternal and infinite. It acually does matter how you care for it. And while it doesnt care about circumstances, you should. Imagine liking someone across the ocean. Love isnt walking away from you, in fact it has yet to arrive. How will you deal with those circumstances? And to come back to the post briefly. There is no right time, place and circumstances for love. You may find love passing you by, mostly unaware of your existance. But I suppose you can just sit, wait and hope it sees you.

With out these compulsory requirements, you end up failing? I'm not sure you're qualified to talk about love in such absolute terms. I guaranteed even you can fall in love with out said requirements. Dear I say, it may even be true love. =P

 

Wow, pure rubbish. Well I guess that says it all. No need debating over it, is there? I could, but there's no point. See, I know I am right in my conclusion. You don't understand it entirely because of..well, the lightball joke :) But you assume you do, and that's about the exact moment when all your ideas fail. They fail to convince mostly.