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Tuesday, October 18, 2005
A few words...
I wouldn't want to be
Anywhere else but here
I wouldn't want to change
Anything at all
I wouldn't want to take
Everything out on you
Although I know I do
Everytime I fall....

Strange how we only expect a lot from the people we love the most. The others can simply get a way with a lot, but when it come to loved ones, every little thing is important, every little mistake...
posted by Alina @ 12:27 AM  
12 Comments:
  • At 10/18/2005 1:57 AM, Blogger tota said…

    we expect the max from the ppl we love coz we give them the max on return, the max of our feelings , thoughts and efforts
    so we make those Unlimited expectations, coz they mean much to us, we cant accept it to be less, not coz of what we offer, but coz they have to be in an untouchable level in our sight

     
  • At 10/18/2005 2:16 AM, Blogger Alina said…

    True Tota, very true!

     
  • At 10/18/2005 4:29 AM, Blogger Me said…

    I dont expect anything from the people I love...;)

     
  • At 10/19/2005 1:00 AM, Blogger Alina said…

    How do you do that Avik? Can it be learned in some way?

     
  • At 10/19/2005 3:28 AM, Blogger ~Daydreamer~ said…

    Well Kayla true love is giving love without expecting anything in return. This is very hard, but it does happen. If the other one truly loves you, I don't think you should expect anything from them. You already know they love you.

    It's when they're playing games and taking you for granted you should be alarmed!

    Well, the thing is if they truly love you, they won't hurt you. But if they do some way, honesty is the best policy. Let them know how you're hurt.

    Just what I think...

     
  • At 10/19/2005 5:41 PM, Blogger haal said…

    I believe when in love, you dont 'expect' anything from who you love. Expect insinuate to me a 'trade', give and take thing. But in love, there is no expectations, no waiting for him/her to do anything or not do.It is more natural exchange.

     
  • At 10/19/2005 9:44 PM, Blogger MoonLightShadow said…

    I have always wondered about this fact. When it comes to loved ones, every single tiny little thing does matter a lot. Be it a nice gesture, or a sign of not caring. And I thought that there is something wrong in me. I’ve always thought that we could let go of everything when it comes to loved ones. But, it proved to be completely the opposite. We are very sensitive towards action of people we love, while we don’t care much about other people because we are not that focused on their actions!

    It sounds strange, but logical at the same time!

     
  • At 10/20/2005 7:59 AM, Blogger Nightlegend said…

    When we love someone we want him/her to be a perffect human being ,although it's impossible to happen cause we are no angels but we keep on trying ,and you are always waiting for new things from your beloved one ,always wishing or waiting for something ,because that's one of the reasons of why you love him/her.

     
  • At 10/20/2005 12:24 PM, Blogger Shirazi said…

    Yes!

     
  • At 10/20/2005 3:26 PM, Blogger doshar said…

    it is not that you expect so much, but you are already under the illusion that this person is great! that is why we love him. and we need him to live up to that.

    also, we are more sensitive with a loved one. you can't just ignore a hurting word, and throw it over you shoulder as if it does not matter. cause it does. just the way it is. but after years together, when you are very secure of each other's love and value, it is not that critical. :)

     
  • At 10/21/2005 10:16 PM, Blogger bart said…

    loving someone is also to make yourself vulnerable, your expectations of another are a reflection of your trusting and if that trust is compromised it hurts like hell... hope this helps...

     
  • At 10/22/2005 7:00 AM, Blogger Shirazi said…

    Only a few words but they are so powerful!

     
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